Which of the following myths is ultimately more harmful to realistic, honest human relationships?
- Sex is always dirty, shameful, and unpleasant, and should never be talked about at all.
- Sex is always fun, magical, and liberating, and should be talked about incessantly.
I’m calling it a toss-up.
J.S. Bangs 
Is that like asking someone whether it is better to die through the agency of Scylla or Charybdis? 🙂